{"id":36,"date":"2024-12-22T21:35:21","date_gmt":"2024-12-22T21:35:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/songsanctuary.space\/?p=36"},"modified":"2025-01-23T00:36:36","modified_gmt":"2025-01-23T00:36:36","slug":"everybody-hurts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/songsanctuary.space\/?p=36","title":{"rendered":"Everybody Hurts"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I lost my oldest son 8 months ago at the age 37. I have been in a very dark place and my husband played this song for me I cried so hard hearing this song. I have been playing this song ever since hearing it. For everyone that is hurting i hope you find the strength to keep living your life. thanks to my husband and REM for helping my realize life is worth living.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I&#8217;m 60 yrs. old, I came across this song the night my granddaughter received a heart transplant. My granddaughter was born with congenital heart syndrome, which meant breathing was always a problem. She celebrated her 1st anniversary with her new Heart on May 28,2019. She\u2019s now twelve years old, l will forever be grateful to the donor,s family for sharing their Love One with us and for giving my Granddaughter a new life .To this day I still cry for the donor, whose young life ended unexpectedly, and for the family who blessed my granddaughter . I thank God for every day he gives her. Life before her transplant was very different from now. I pray, that \u201cmy granddaughter never forgets her donor, whose life came to end in order for her to have a better quality of life, and that the Donors family gave unselfishly for others to have life. \u201cWhen Life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, Show Life you have a thousand reasons to Smile.\u201d Peace be with you. Gael (grandfather)&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;REM saved so many lives with this song including mine. People think it&#8217;s a song of sadness but it&#8217;s a song of strength and seeing the next sunrise. \u2661&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I\u2019m 71 yrs old and just heard this incredible song for the first time a few weeks ago. And now reading all these heartbreaking and compassionate comments. My God. Tears rolling down my cheeks. Much of the time, I have such little faith in humanity. Then I read what many of you have written makes me feel such connection. Love to you all. Thank you.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\nMy world was a mess in 1993. Decided to end it all. Was driving fast down a hill with a sharp right over a bridge as the bottom. My plan was just to go straight on. As I was halfway down the hill, the line &#8220;No, no, no you&#8217;re not alone&#8221; came on. It hit me like a brick. I slowed own, pulled over, and cried like a child. Michael Stipe, I owe you.\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My dad introduced me to REM. He died April 23rd 2024 from pancreatic cancer. I love you and miss you, Dad. I&#8217;ll never stop hurting.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Sitting here numb. Mom passed away this past Saturday. I&#8217;m now the last one standing in my family. Dad&#8217;s gone, my brother and sister have passed. Thank God for my wife and kids. Absolutely lost right now. This song somehow picks me up when I&#8217;m down.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;As someone with Asperger&#8217;s Syndrome who has battled severe depression, frustration, stress and bitterness for most of my life, I am grateful to REM for this masterpiece. I have wanted to take my life so often. I always struggled to fit in with others and ended up fighting a lot. People simply never understood me. I have to remain for the sake of my loved ones and family yet that doesn&#8217;t make the road any easier. I am still uncertain about my future and where to go. I also listen to the song any time I experience deep depression and bitterness. Helps every time. At least, I have my guardian angels and spirit guides to walk the road with me no matter what direction my life will take&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My dear son died yesterday morning. With out this song I would be insane. The words have helped me ,HOLD ON. Thank you REM for this wonderfully meaningful song of encouraging words.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;This song helped me and my son. He was a combat medic and came home all messed up in the head and highly suicidal. Thanks to training from the VA on how to help him and THIS SONG , got him to see the light at the end of the long dark tunnel he was in!! took 8 years but now he is a RN and his specialty is mental health, he now works with teens stuck in that dark tunnel from parental abuse!&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;My husband was dying of cancer and our kids were only 6 &amp; 10. I used to go down to the basement in the middle of the night while everyone was asleep and listen to this again and again while I howled out my grief. Sounds daft being grateful for a song but I am. It was such a comfort.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;As a person who suffers from depression, this song actually lifts me up. Everybody hurts. Sometimes everything is wrong. 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